Life’s Decisive Moments

Life’s Decisive Moments


My friend, take note, cherish, and appreciate those seemingly “little and insignificant” moments of life that often go unnoticed, unappreciated, and are taken for granted… they are such moments that make all the difference and determine the turning points of your life.” Sylvia Forchap-Likambi

Be mindful of the little moments…those small and insignificant moments… be mindful and deliberate about how and with whom you spend each second and moment of your day and life… Be deliberate about the words you utter and the actions you take at every given second and you have to live… Be conscious and deliberate about the choices and decisions you make at each moment of your day and life…

Of note, they are the little moments in life that determine the overall outcome of your life and make life beautiful and worth living or otherwise… those decisive moments!

It was/ is in a moment when that breakthrough of yours came/ will come… It was in a moment, that you finally completed that project on which you have been working for days or even years…It was a moment when you completed your final and decisive exam that determined the outcome of that prestigious certificate or degree in a course or program you been studying for years…

It was in a moment when that Olympic Gold medal champion crossed over the finish/ winning line…it was in a moment when the team striker scored that winning and defining goal… it was in a moment when the football referee sounded the final whistle that ended the match and determined the winners… It was in a moment, when you eventually said “yes I do,” and tied the knot… after dating for years, or even decades… It was also in a moment when you finally said… “I am done… I quit,” that put an end to that marriage, relationship, job, business, career, or even to that life, that you have been working endlessly on improving and hoping to make better…

Finally… it is in a moment when we watch a loved one take their last and final breath of Life…and in the next moment, they’re gone… never to be with us again!

Life is lived, enjoyed, and cherished in the moments. Commit on this day and in this very moment to live, value, and cherish each moment of your life like you have never done before…like it was the last moment of your life.. and be open and ready to learn and draw from the incredible life lessons every single moment presents to you – good or bad.

Life happens in moments…from the moment you conceived to the moment you take your final breath! Enjoy each moment and make it count!

To your very best life moments and year!

With love,

Sylvia Forchap-Likambi

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I’d also like to stir within us a compelling desire to significantly invest in ourselves and personal development, so we could genuinely work towards creating the life, family, community, and world that we all desire and dream of – from within. This is definitely the appointed moment to birth that life, family, career, business, nation, and we all dream and yearn for earnestly… Nonetheless, it all starts from within each one us! Only in us can we ever find the power and the courage to change our lives…

It’s definitely time to stop talking about our problems, and start creating lasting and sustainable solutions! It’s time to stop blaming others and start taking responsibility for our own lives, happiness wellbeing…

We have the power to change the stories we tell ourselves and our daughters/ sons…We have the power to change our today, and hence our tomorrow—.and life! However, this power is not out there… this POWER will NEVER be given to us by any institution, society or government created by man— mere mortals like you and me (who are here today and gone tomorrow – in the twinkle of an eye); not because they don’t care about you and me or because they want to deprive us of “our power” or oppress us— far from that! They simply do not have this POWER or ACCESS to this POWER… they cannot even comprehend this POWER! How then can we expect them to give us what they don’t have… or even worse, that which they are ignorant of!

We are looking in the wrong places beloved; we are speaking to the wrong people… We are focusing in the wrong direction, and hence driving further away from our ultimate destination. We should be looking within – within ourselves… we should be speaking within – to ourselves…to that powerful seed of greatness, vision and restless desire to be greater/ be better and be the very best/give the very best of ourselves—as individuals and collectively as a people with a common goal and vision…in creating and birthing forth that wonderful, kind, loving, just, and peaceful world we all dream of!

We can’t afford to be bitter, while on this Powerful journey and mission. We simply cannot afford to be angry, aggressive, and/ or bitter… such attitude only intoxicates us and leaves us powerless, more bitter, and lifeless… depriving us of the great power and gift of Life/ Motherhood bestowed upon us by The Divine. In this state, we become barren and unable to conceive, nurture, and birth this remarkable world we dream of daily!

It is our responsibility as Women to create this beautiful, loving, kind, and ethical world… It is our responsibility as mothers of every man and woman in our world today (good or bad, white or black, Christian or atheist, etc) to create this reality! We owe it to the incredible children and leaders of tomorrow we conceive and bring forth into this world!

 Let’s do this together… let’s create A NEW PARADIGM OF FEMALE LEADERSHIP… that is vision-driven/ purpose-driven, and in alignment with our very core nature and purpose. The latter could solely be conceived, nurtured, and birthed from within fertile and receptive heart/ mind!

You must LEAD the SOUL… You are naturally wired and predestined to do so… This is the type of authentic and transformational leadership needed in such challenging times… in this 21st Century—A New Paradigm of Female Leadership!

You are incredibly wise— how could you ever think of competing with your very own children… sons and daughters alike… babes and grownups alike?


Step out Woman… this is your time to truly transform your life and make a difference/ leave a lasting legacy for generations to come!

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